The Circle

This weekend I am performing a wedding for an extra-ordinary young couple in Avon, Colorado. Aside from the breathtaking views, timeless architecture, and genuinely kind people, my heart has been transformed by the influence of this couple's Circle! I have learned from those who love them the imperative of demonstrating love through word and deed. This is what makes our Circles so valuable; to have people who give of themselves to enhance your life-journey. The key is giving!

My circle has given me love, time, wisdom, encouragement, and so much more. How about yours? The Circle has to include those who will speak the truth in love, no matter what! We desperately need that resource in every aspect of our lives.

So, I've been challenged to appreciate my Circle even more, while taking an inventory of those who claim to BE in my Circle!

Take some time today to cherish those who have invested in your life-journey. The Circle....

Graceful Aging...

Today I witnessed a home-going celebration for a 95 year-old sister. Her life was spent investing in the lives of others. She was an educator, community activist, and trail-blazer. However, in our self-centered society, the thought of living for others has lost its cache. In fact, we would question a person's motives who constantly gave of themselves in meaningful ways. Scripture teaches that Jesus lived for the purpose of giving. His method of servant-leadership demonstrated an ability to bring the best out of those to whom he interacted. In essence, He led with love and service. He modeled every lesson that He taught, so that His message would not get lost in the translation of verbal and practical teaching.

As I mature, both numerically and spiritually, I find it necessary to give more of myself to others. I am learning that this is how we age gracefully. The minister said, "You can die one of two ways: 'rust-out' or 'wear-out!'" I choose to 'wear-out!' I must learn to give of myself, not until it hurts, but until it feels good again. I must stop focusing on convenience and start focusing on service. I really don't want my living to be for nothing...

My life counts and will continue to count! So, when my time on this side expires, and they roll me before a waiting congregation, they'll be able to say, "He sure looks good!"